"I can't tell you that." He'd been making a concerted effort, after all, not to mother and nag with Hadyn. "But it didn't really help me that much when I tried to 'find myself' that way." Still, they weren't the same people, Elisha thought. And while he wouldn't want Hadyn to go...

He did want him to be happy.

"You know that I consider 'Henry wouldn't like it' to be an argument in favor of something, don't you?"