"But we're not the same, Felicia." Tugging on the end of her hair is Affectionate, hopefully undercuts the fact that Names are still confusing. "I'm older. You're a girl." He manages, at least, to say it as a Fact rather than the Judgement their Father or Uncle might have made it. "I'm taller. You're a Joker. We've got to have... different responsibilities. They're both important, but they're not the same."