"Certainly not. It's more a desire to understand your particular motivation for coming to this one."

In an idle sort of way. Clearly cake was equally or more important.

"By your own report, you've never come to a party of your own volition before, which either means you've only ever been dragged or you've actively decided against them your entire life. But you're here, which seems to imply either someone brought you here against your personal inclination, whether or not physically, or you've changed your mind entirely about wanting to come to a party, which surely must be a seismic mental realignment."